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Molly is finishing her stent as a preschool aid this week and will be picking up 6 hours at the library for the summer.
Philip was nervous his first day of driving instruction, the second not so much. The third day he got a different teacher for some reason and he said to ask the school if this could be his teacher. He said he learned so much more from this one! My husband and I both thought it might be two different teaching styles as Philip "learns differently" than most.
It will be at least 5 months before the results of the Administrative Assistant test results come in. In the meantime I have to update my resume. Hopefully the job I'm at now will just "up the title" for the position I'm in. Only time will tell. I really don't feel like going on a bunch of interviews at my age. And if I do, I hope I'm hirable at my age!
 
Spent the day mostly outside the house today. First, hubby, Eren, and I served at a project called a Community Baby Shower. Then we traveled into Missouri so Eren could buy their first car! That was a crazy experience, with calls to the bank and insurance, but ultimately Eren got the car! They no longer have to aske permission to use the ex's car. We went out to lunch to celebrate, then hubby and I came home to run errands. Whew! We were gone from 7 am to 5 pm.

Michi, that is a gorgeous card!!!

Lynnie, lovely page, and thank you for the words of comfort. I think I'll look at where Ghost is streaming and watch it with Eren. Maybe tomorrow.
 
LilyAnn!!! How GREAT for Philip speaking up for himself. That is huge. If he learned more from the second teacher, then by all means he should try to continue with that one. I'm sure you did amazing on your test. Nerve wracking that you have to wait SO long for the results. In the age of computers, you'd think they could get you answers more quickly than that.

Congrats to Eren that they found a car! Big step to total independence. So sorry for everything they're going through, but this should help. They should name it Liberty! hahaha. Our youngest always names her vehicles.

Tammie and I did the flower shopping on Friday and my deck and Mommy's Garden are complete.
Starting from the left is the hanging pot of Fuchsia for Freddy's mom, BJ.
Then my Mommy Garden is RED Geraniums and Marigolds. Tammie painted the Welcome pot and that will have a solar fountain in it as soon as the glue dries in the drainage holes in the bottom. She used to have plants and flowers in there.
Petunias are for my Gram. She loved Petunias, Pansies and Violets.
And the Dragon Wing Begonias, Lantana and Lobelia are for ME! <3
I am SO happy.
Now the rain just has to come and wash away the dirt. hehehe...

Love and Blessings
Carla, in MN

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I am finally getting time to scrapbook again. The last 6 months have been challenging. I am still dealing with TBI symptoms from my accident last year and I don't feel like myself some days. My doctor told me I'd be back to normal by a year and it hasn't happened. Now I am trying to work with new doctors, and it's been a frustrating journey. So, I am trying to get back a little normalcy. In January my nephew and his girlfriend moved in with us for a few months after he was discharged from the marines. That was a rollercoaster time because I had a hard time adjusting to the changes.
My youngest daughter graduated a few weeks ago and we had family from out of town for over a week (and some extra drama because who can't have that at a family function?! lol). THEN my oldest daughters' boyfriend came to us to tell us that he's going to ask her to marry him. He had a ring designed and showed it to us. She is going to love it. I am ecstatic but yet sad that my baby is getting married! We don't know when he's doing it yet since he wants to find the perfect moment. I am patiently waiting for her to come over here to show us the ring.
 
gina329 said:
I am finally getting time to scrapbook again. The last 6 months have been challenging. I am still dealing with TBI symptoms from my accident last year and I don't feel like myself some days. My doctor told me I'd be back to normal by a year and it hasn't happened. Now I am trying to work with new doctors, and it's been a frustrating journey. So, I am trying to get back a little normalcy. In January my nephew and his girlfriend moved in with us for a few months after he was discharged from the marines. That was a rollercoaster time because I had a hard time adjusting to the changes.
My youngest daughter graduated a few weeks ago and we had family from out of town for over a week (and some extra drama because who can't have that at a family function?! lol). THEN my oldest daughters' boyfriend came to us to tell us that he's going to ask her to marry him. He had a ring designed and showed it to us. She is going to love it. I am ecstatic but yet sad that my baby is getting married! We don't know when he's doing it yet since he wants to find the perfect moment. I am patiently waiting for her to come over here to show us the ring.
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Welcome back, Gina. It sounds like there is a lot going on, but we are glad you are getting the time to scrapbook it.
 
I just posted a thread in the Everyday Chatter forum to post your favourite layout in your gallery. Please add something :)
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Thread 'If we had a Gallery of Fame, which of your pages would you 'hang' in there?'

Just suppose we had a Gallery of Fame and we each got to add the layout of which you are the most proud, which would you submit? Put a bunch if you like. Let's see all your favourite pages!! I had a hard time coming up with just one. I think I would probably choose this one:


Although I have a sneaking affection for this one also:
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It seems so quiet on the site, or is it just me? I love to come to the chat and find lots of news to catch up on! What is everyone up to? I have a meeting today (Daughters of the British Empire) and have been frantically getting ready for it. I am always getting ready at the last minute. Well, actually, I had the paperwork prepared, but always wait until the last minute to print it out. It seems sort of muggy today, too, which makes me lethargic.

I had better get ready for the meeting.
 
What have I been up to? Hmm. Yesterday, I volunteered all morning then came home and crashed on my couch after talking with Eren for an hour and a half. I didn't get much of anything done for me, but we did much out trees and flower beds. Today I slept in a bit and still had a nap later, haha, then did some of my homework, reading about a slave girl. So depressing. After that I went to the gym and then to book club. That has been my past couple of days.

We are also preparing for a short trip to Ohio to see the grands and go to an air show. I'm not too excited about the air show, because it's supposed to be 90 degrees there. Sigh. I'd be happier sending hubby by himself, I think. It's going to be tiring too, driving, air show, then driving again. Only taking 3 days. Somebody talk him out of it, argh! :cry:
 
Carla minicooper452 said:
Busy enjoying my summer.
Got my solar fountain working. The moon is a solar too and really pretty at night. Our eldest DD and SIL brought us home the new sea glass chimes from FL when they were there last weekend, so I changed the bird feeders a bit.
My little bit of heaven.
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I love the sea glass chimes! I never thought about doing that - I have some stashed away somewhere.
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We are also preparing for a short trip to Ohio to see the grands and go to an air show. I'm not too excited about the air show, because it's supposed to be 90 degrees there. Sigh. I'd be happier sending hubby by himself, I think. It's going to be tiring too, driving, air show, then driving again. Only taking 3 days. Somebody talk him out of it, argh! :cry:
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I don't blame you for not being excited for the air show in 90 degrees. I remember doing this one year and it being so hot. everyone was miserable! I don't think we've done it since.
 
Things have been crazy around home (story of my life). A little over a week ago we were getting ready for church and I noticed the water pressure seemed "off" as well as a sound that when we first got up I thought was my mother running her space heater. She does that from time to time when she gets chilled. It wasn't the space heater but a busted water shut off valve at the street. Yes, it was our responsibility to get it taken care of. No, we are not handy by any stretch of the imagination. It took a couple of hours and lots of wasted water before a kind neighbor who had the tool to shut off the water at the street arrived to shut off our water. Right after that the water department person showed up and determined that it was the shut off valve for the defunct irrigation system that we hadn't used in probably 15 years had busted. He contacted a friend of his that wouldn't charge us outlandishly and after a few hours of labor, they had the irrigation system capped off and water restored. 2025 has not been kind to us with home repairs, vehicle issues, major money issues. However, God continues to bless us and provide what we need and for that I'm grateful.

We have had a few other minor repair things happen this past week but all were things my husband could manage. That is until today. He has changed out the inside part of our toilets many times over our 30 years of marriage. Today was the first time he needed to shut off the water at the street because he needs to replace a part outside the toilet (don't ask me - totally lost by this point in the conversation). He bought the tool to turn the water off but can't figure out how to do that even after several YouTube videos.... Cue a call to the water department who said they'll send a tech out sometime tomorrow to show him how to do it. Sigh. I asked why he didn't just ask our neighbor who helped us out not too long ago. He shrugged and that led to a discussion about how we just think differently and since he had already called the water department he's going to wait until tomorrow to do the repair project. Did I mention he purchased the stuff to repair the toilet prior to the other water issue and had forgotten about it?

So what did I do today? I retreated to take photos of my plants, played around with Lightroom, cleaned out a bit of stuff I had brought home from school by throwing some stuff away that wasn't needed, putting gift cards from teacher appreciation in with the other gift cards we need to use, and made a layout. I also worked on a counted cross-stitch stocking that my son picked out that will eventually replace the one I made him when he was little. Tomorrow's plan is to pot up some hoya kerrii propagations that my plant seller friend gave me about 2 weeks ago and then I'll see what I feel like doing. I hope you all have a terrific Thursday!
 
Ane, I don't like doing things in the heat. If you go, just think of the fun pictures you can take!! Make sure you take some of you and your hubby ... in the heat....that you can scrap. Take an umbrella and a small cooler with ice-cold drinks. It will help, at least. You have my sympathy!

Susan, it sounds as though you have so much going on. I remember an endless "get fixed" list when we owned our lovely, big, beautiful home with a pool. After the kids left, we moved to a retirement community, and the best part of our home is that they fix everything. Our home is part of a coop where they repair electrical issues, plumbing, and appliances. After a certain amount of time, they replace the things that need replacing, like the floors, counters, appliances, sinks, shower, etc. It is a little part of heaven! I don't miss that list at all. I feel for you. As for your husband, well, I feel for you there, too, but at least he is working on it!
 
I have been to the doctor 4 times this week. I have been accused of being fat just because I lack willpower. Like I have not been trying. Like I have not been in the gym. Like I am not aware that my insulin resistance is the root cause I just don’t know what has caused it. Of the four doctors I see two seem to hate me. Because as an overweight human being apparently I am less human. They keep trying to put me on ozempic. Which is not a great suggestion for someone who in the past has had eating disorders. But I guess eating disorders are only real if you manage to almost kill yourself with them before you get out. To put the cherry on the cake. I have a fibroma on my hip. Following the scan, they believe it is benign. Until it gets bigger and more painful, they won’t do anything about it. The fact that it is already painful is of course negligible. I am a woman and as a woman, I just enjoy complaining. But I don’t wanna put in the work.

I had wanted to try and share something positive. But 99.9% of everything happening right now is enough to make me sob. Sorry guys.
 
Sylfie, honey... I'm so sorry. Gawd, I hate doctors sometimes. I ran into a surgeon like that once. You should have heard the things I said to him. (well... you wouldn't have wanted to hear the things I said to him :sneaky:) I hate anyone who discounts anyone for any reason, but doctors are the worst. I swear they get that lab coat and they think they're gods and they don't have to take people's feelings, backgrounds, outside influences, past, etc. into account anymore. Infuriating. Hope you can get something figured out. Personally, I won't do anything like Ozempic for ethical reasons. I have too many friends and family who are diabetic and so I won't use that for weight loss when there are other option, but you're right to know your own reasons especially when the doctors don't. smh... Good luck.

Nothing new here. Getting ready for a very hot weekend, by MN standards, so I'll be staying inside, playing with paper. Got our big, dead tree taken down yesterday. (off the northeast end of the deck) Very different view, IMO, but that's only because I've been looking at that tree for thirty years. Next up is putting up the Edison lights on the trellis, getting screens installed on the gutters and installing the brand, new 25' flag pole.

Love and Blessings
Carla, in MN
 
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It's been a long week. I had to take my car into the shop to get the AC fixed (because who doesn't want ac in their car living in FL?). They ended up finding another problem so that was fun. I've also been dealing with my doctor's office because I saw the craziest neurologist ever a couple weeks ago. It's been discouraging since he didn't help and I'm still having issues. Then the referral is taking them forever to get to me. After endless phone calls, I finally got the appointment for Tuesday after the lady was very understanding to the situation.

Today I just tried relaxing and finding stuff to occupy my time. I'm supposed to limit screen time, and I am so bored lol. I ended up floating in the pool for a few hours before a storm blew in. I had this bright idea to purchase CorelDraw and trying to remember where everything has been a pain after using PS for so long.
 
So sorry Sylvan that you are experiencing such negative results with a Dr. Shouldn't they be sympathetic and try to help you rather than belittling you. I have overweight issues in my genes and have always tried to maintain but I know that it is a real struggle. Hang in there, hugs your way!

Carla, your yard is going to look awesome. I do hope you share a layout with your results.

Gina, So sorry you are also having Dr. issues. I know it takes so long for referrals here too. The pool sounds nice...hang in there girl!

I have accomplished a lot this week with downsizing and letting go of things. I had a yard sale and have been selling things on line and have made over $1500 already. The extra money is nice but just getting rid of the clutter is priceless.

My neighbors are so wonderful, always checking up on me which I really appreciate and I am going for dinner soon at their place.

I have gotten back into my cycling so you may see an influx of cycling layouts...LOL!
 
We are getting things together to head out of town on Tuesday to take our youngest daughter up to Ohio for a DCI Colorguard Leardership camp. Hopefully she'll finish up her Summer class tomorrow or Tuesday morning before we leave so that won't be hanging over her head. Did I mention she's taking this last credit advancement class so she will graduate at the beginning of August from High School completely skipping over her Senior year?

My husband is currently looking at free or inexpensive things to do in the Alliance, Ohio area. We are taking a day trip up to Niagara Falls on Thursday but some of the things we thought we would do in the area may not be possible on Friday due to the possibility of rain. We had hoped to go to a National Park to hike and see some waterfalls. If any of you are in that area and have suggestions, please share!

I hope everyone has a great week ahead!
 
Hi all! Another Youth Tour is in the books. Great group of kids. We missed the horrible heat that DC is supposed to get this week, but we did get caught in a couple of rain storms. I'll take the rain over the heat any day! I still need a couple of days to catch up on my sleep, but I did get everything unpacked and all the laundry done. Today I need to focus on the expense report, put away all my supplies, get caught up on emails, and then start working on camp that is less than a month away.

Sylvan, I'm so sorry to hear of your experiences. As a person who used to be well over 400 lbs., I know the feeling you are describing... that you are less of a person, that you are lazy, that you lack will power, that you are not deserving. In 2019, hubby and I decided to consult with a nutritionist because just going to the gym wasn't helping. We needed more tools. I remember how scared I was that day... how I was mentally prepared to be humiliated and berated, as that had been my previous experience. The clinic I went to had a completely different mindset and they saw in me what I was feeling. They addressed it, and help me get past all of that. We talked about the weight loss surgery shows, and how Dr. No treats his patients... they were disgusted by that show. So glad I found a group of medical professionals who could actually HELP me. I learned a lot about what I should eat for my personal journey. I learned that I didn't have to kill myself in the gym, but instead they encouraged me to find "joyful movements" -- ways to get out and move my body that I actually enjoyed! And they gave me tools... had to cycle through about four different rounds of medications before we FINALLY found one that "turned off" what they call the "food noise" in my head. For the first time in my life, I know what it's like for the majority of the people to not have hunger signals 24/7. They also helped me break my sugar addiction. I have now lost 53% of my body weight over the past six years, and I have surpassed my initial goal AND my "dream" goal. I can now shop for clothes at regular stores and I'm no longer in plus sized clothing. Most of my friends and family have been cheering me on. I do have a couple of shitty coworkers that constantly try to sabotage my progress, but I've learned to ignore them. I no longer get "those looks" when I board an airplane of passengers praying I don't sit by them. I find that others take what I have to say more seriously, and I'm not brushed aside as I used to be. It's so crazy. I'm still the same person... I just wear a different size now. Know that you have cheerleaders on this site who want the best for you. If your situation allows, fire your current doctors and see if you can find a group of medical professionals who will treat you as a human being. Sending you the warmest and most supportive wishes! <3
 
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Hi all! Another Youth Tour is in the books. Great group of kids. We missed the horrible heat that DC is supposed to get this week, but we did get caught in a couple of rain storms. I'll take the rain over the heat any day! I still need a couple of days to catch up on my sleep, but I did get everything unpacked and all the laundry done. Today I need to focus on the expense report, put away all my supplies, get caught up on emails, and then start working on camp that is less than a month away.

Sylvan, I'm so sorry to hear of your experiences. As a person who used to be well over 400 lbs., I know the feeling you are describing... that you are less of a person, that you are lazy, that you lack will power, that you are not deserving. In 2019, hubby and I decided to consult with a nutritionist because just going to the gym wasn't helping. We needed more tools. I remember how scared I was that day... how I was mentally prepared to be humiliated and berated, as that had been my previous experience. The clinic I went to had a completely different mindset and they saw in me what I was feeling. They addressed it, and help me get past all of that. We talked about the weight loss surgery shows, and how Dr. No treats his patients... they were disgusted by that show. So glad I found a group of medical professionals who could actually HELP me. I learned a lot about what I should eat for my personal journey. I learned that I didn't have to kill myself in the gym, but instead they encouraged me to find "joyful movements" -- ways to get out and move my body that I actually enjoyed! And they gave me tools... had to cycle through about four different rounds of medications before we FINALLY found one that "turned off" what they call the "food noise" in my head. For the first time in my life, I know what it's like for the majority of the people to not have hunger signals 24/7. They also helped me break my sugar addiction. I have now lost 53% of my body weight over the past six years, and I have surpassed my initial goal AND my "dream" goal. I can now shop for clothes at regular stores and I'm no longer in plus sized clothing. Most of my friends and family have been cheering me on. I do have a couple of shitty coworkers that constantly try to sabotage my progress, but I've learned to ignore them. I no longer get "those looks" when I board an airplane of passengers praying I don't sit by them. I find that others take what I have to say more seriously, and I'm not brushed aside as I used to be. It's so crazy. I'm still the same person... I just wear a different size now. Know that you have cheerleaders on this site who want the best for you. If your situation allows, fire your current doctors and see if you can find a group of medical professionals who will treat you as a human being. Sending you the warmest and most supportive wishes! <3
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A big standing ovation for that, Breoni. Congratulations on your life changes. You are such an inspiration.
 
I think Monday was the longest Monday that ever Mondayed! LOL! I woke up today thinking it was Friday... only to realize it was only Tuesday. Oy vey! We had quite a summer storm brew up yesterday evening, and we lost power for a couple of hours. It's still raining a bit this morning, but the temperatures have dropped. I hope it stays cool and doesn't get too humid today.

Hope everyone has a great day!
 
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