Don't know who has seen one of my recent posts on FB where my sister goes off on it. We have a love hate relationship. She is bi-polar! I can't block her until after the house is in my name because we communicate through FB. She's not a phone person. It is so sad that a relative has to act that way.
She's telling me that the house will not be mine long. That she has "dirt" on me. Should I be afraid?
I'm doing lots of remodeling and she is upset that I'm destroying things my father made. They were made in the 70s. They are not modern at all. They are wood and ugly. I'll be living where my father has and I want it up to date. Is there anything wrong with that? Don't get me wrong, it's been HARD getting rid of lots of the things. Now, as some of you had pm'd me, you know why I really don't ask questions or post family stuff on FB.
That's why I keep the updates here!
I did see where she talked about the bar... I would just take a deep breath and move on. That's pretty much all you can do. Big hug, though, it must be very difficult.
I am in Glasgow, Mt with some of the family. My husband wanted to go back and see where he grew up. We decided to take the trip now while he still can. Because of that I am not able to do much in leaving posts for all the photos. I hope you understand
I think you have your priorities straight. The Wafflers will love and support you in all the ways you need. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
Lily Ann, that's rough! I had a love/hate relationship with my sister for a long time too, until she was in an accident and lost her life briefly. Since 2002 she has had memory problems and I can't be angry with her anymore because she doesn't remember what she did to me. I learned to put it all behind me. I'm not saying this so you back down and let her have her way. Definitely not. I think you're in the right here. I think you're doing the best you can under the circumstances.
Katherine, I understand. If I was on vacation, I'd definitely rather enjoy it rather than comment. Have fun!
Lynnie, how do you do what you do? You are amazing and an inspiration to me.
Haha, if you could be a ladybug on the wall of my life, you would be laughing yourself silly. I do loads of things that are fun, and totally neglect important things like bills and taxes. I love my life, but I do wish I had staff.
I am so sorry to hear about your sister. Things like that do put things into perspective, but knowing that Lily Ann's sister is bipolar or your sister has memory issues does not make it any easier to be on the receiving end of the problem.All you can do is do your best and move on, right!
I am so sorry that I've not been able to keep up better so far this year. I've been busting my rear end trying to make as much money as I can because I am trying to buy a house. I am so tired of everything being temporary and I figure that if I buy it then it won't be temporary. I might have to start out with something small and mobile, but my ultimate plan is to work my way to where I really want to be.
Then there is the nephew, I dunno why but he is my heart right now. He is five months old now and so adorable and spoiled (it wouldn't be Aunt Ran that is doing that to him though).
Oh and Kathryn is getting ready to graduate in May. She just found out last week that they are having a prom and I encouraged her to go to it. At least she can have one part of the senior experience that is normal. I ordered her dress yesterday and the prom is just three weeks away. Her graduation will be in the middle of May and then in August she will be starting college at either Transylvania University or Centre College (both right here in Kentucky and both pretty expensive private schools). We are waiting to hear on the final financial aid packages.
You will be so happy when you get a home, Dorann. You have really had some issues for a while, having to move so much, problems with your roomie and then your poor husband. It has been a rough few years. Just look forward to having your own place and being a family together.
So glad a few things are getting better for Kathryn and she has a few of the gems from her senior year.
LilyAnn, I totally understand you wanting to have your own things, we can't save everything from our parents. My Mom is downsizing and she is gifting items however it is only IF we want them. Like a vase that my Mom made back when she did ceramics. It is white with a pebble texture and a black rose on the front. I so admired that vase and asked her many years ago if she was going to get rid of it, it I may have it. She gave it to me already but I have it wrapped in a box cuz I don't have anywhere to put it. Other than photos, I have enough junk from my own stuff.
Perhaps one day she will feel differently.
Thanks so much Lynnie for overseeing Survivor...your are simply the BEST! I sure do miss seeing what you would have created!
Day 2 of electrical repairs, they are doing my craft room today so glad I got my LO done, if I am able I will do the Immunity Challenge. I will try to comment on everyone's later tonight.
Have a great day everyone!
My intent was to scrap along, but I haven't scrapped in forever and I am feeling it!! I love doing the Alliance, but I have not been as supporting this year as last, I am just up to my ears these last few weeks. I am hoping things settle down (hahahahahaha) in my life soon.
Of course, I have often thought that things don't settle down when you are the one causing the storm!
I am working on my craft room, too. I do a lot of crafts as well as digital stuff. The problem is there is no accessibility and I make a huge mess when I am working on a project because I have to get lots of stuff out. We are building some shelving (well, putting together Ikea shelving that is not cubbies) to house the stuff I use. That way I won't be dragging out tons of stuff every time I want something. It is taking way longer than I thought it would though. (Doesn't it always).
And you are all right about not keeping unwanted things. There is a book called "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning: How to Free Yourself and Your Family from a Lifetime of Clutter " that really addresses this. If anyone feels guilty, I highly recommend reading it.