I'm the oldest. I have a brother who is two years younger. We are pretty close, but we are both so busy with our kids so we don't spend much time together. We also have a half-sister who is 12 years younger than me. I love her dearly, but we are nothing alike. Honestly, I think she looks at me like an old bitty because her --shall we just call them parenting skills even though I disagree with just about every choice she makes--are totally different than mine. SHe lives in the city and it's not nice to say, but her morals are just plain questionable. We don't talk often which is a shame because when she was little; we were really close.